Six Super Sexy Sex Secrets for BBW

I will be the first to admit that my weight use to fluctuate. I could go from  a flattering “thick” to  a unhealthy BBW easily. I got use to that reality, but after speaking with a BBW friend, I realized some women weren’t comfortable with the idea of their body being exposed to another person.

This broke my heart for two reasons: 1) it meant that she was not having the best sex of her life, and 2) her lack of confidence was depriving her lover from fully enjoying their sexual experience together.  My friend admittedly wore t-shirts while making love. When I asked her why she would do such a thing, she admitted that she didn’t know how to turn her plus size figure into an advantage.

Her story made me realize that she may not be alone in feeling insecure, so below I’m giving you the six super sexy sex secrets for BBW that will blow his mind before, during, and after sex.

1. Shake, Jiggle, Taunt, and Flaunt. You aren’t called a big beautiful woman for nothing. Men like to see a woman embrace her curves, no matter how big or how beautiful. If you have nice breasts, find ways to incorporate them in foreplay. The same goes for your hips, butt, and thighs. You might even want to spice it up by buying sexy lingerie or costumes. A quick Google search pointed me to great shops like Angelique Lingerie and Q Plus Size Lingerie. Don’t be afraid to let loose, your man will applaud you for doing so.

2. Get Creative With Your Food. Yes, I’m still talking about sex. Listen, if you aren’t giving head on a regular basis then you should start. There’s nothing more silly than a BBW that doesn’t like giving head.

Be just as passionate about your man’s bazooka as you are about the food that you put in your mouth. Feel free to add ice, sugar, edible lotions and creams, and anything else you need to enhance your experience. There’s a huge market for this, and there’s no reason you shouldn’t take advantage of the products that are out there to help you spice up your love life. My only other bit of advice is to make it clear you want it in return. Oh and use the advice in Super Sexy Sex Secret #1 to jiggle your poontang in his face to make him want to dive in for a bite. You can thank me later.

3. Toy Ploy. The toy industry isn’t soaking in billions of dollars a year because toys don’t work. It’s a big business because it’s super sexy and super fun. Even if you aren’t into toys your man would be thrilled to watch you play with a bullet, or give him a head full while he wears a cock ring. Toys can enhance your love life and the best part is, the naughty party is just for the two of you. For the more experienced toy user, use what you like best; but by all means play in the bedroom.

4. Open your mind as wide as you open your legs. I have heard a lot of females say, “I will never do that in the bedroom.” It’s often hard for me to explain to them that it won’t mean that their man will never do that either. If I’ve learned one thing about human nature, it’s that we all find a way to get what we want…if we want it bad enough. So if your man wants to try something new or unique, don’t be so quick to shut him down. Now, of course, I’m not saying you should say “yes” to everything. Not everything will fit everybody. But at least be open to the idea and weigh the outcome carefully.

5. Be bold. Be heard. Men like to listen out for their name; better yet, they love to be praised. There’s no standard language for this, so I can’t produce a script. But if you aren’t comfortable with this super sexy sex secret, try a Google search for women like Crystal Clear, Skyy Black, Jasmine Cashmere, and Pinky. Watch their videos and listen to how they talk to their “lovers” for tips. This is probably the easiest sexy sex secret of them all.

6. Better your best. Every now and then try to better something you’ve done before. There’s no need to be insecure about your body, my friend. Let’s face it. He knew you were a BBW before y’all made it to the bedroom.